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By Faybe Bay

Good teacher, bad teacher

I am sure that each of us has a memorable teacher. Some we remember because they were the best, and others because they were the worst. I remember them myself. I can still feel the tears welling in my eyes when I think of the science teacher who, having read my attendance record, asked "So will you be attending classes this year, or just showing up twice a week whether you feel like it or not?" The whole class laughed as I took my seat. I left school that year. I quit because what had been a new start had come to an abrupt halt in her classroom.

I also remember my best teacher, the year before. I was in contact with her when I finished writing my first fictional story. I wanted her to read it, to edit me, to tell me if I was any good. We talked on the phone and she told me that I didn't need her to tell me I was good. She said "Do you remember the essay I asked if I could keep?" and I said "Yes" it had been my best work ever, I still don't own a copy. "I take it out every year and read it to my class. It always brings them to tears. I tell them that it is the best work ever produced in my classroom and that I won't accept anything less from any of my students than their best."

I remember her because she brought out the best in me. I am a writer because of her class. She taught us to write that year. It was an ongoing year long project. At the end of the year we had to produce a one side of one page essay about a single event that shaped our lives. At the time that event was the death of my father, but now, I think that it was her class. I had produced an essay that she shared with the faculty first. That essay was our final, and when that was done we had two weeks to just read or write, whatever we wanted. All that was required was to read it aloud in front of the class. I couldn't do it. I didn't go back to school for days, dreading getting up in front of the class. I'd gotten up at the beginning of the year and been ridiculed for what I read, which was my favorite poem. Her class was the only reason I went to school at all. I got kicked out of school for not going, being so afraid to read aloud that it made me physically ill.

Make a Difference

Now, I would love to be able to teach. I can speak in front of others now, as I worked in a Bingo Hall for twenty years. But there's this problem, this panic that fills me when I try to speak "unscripted" it's like stage fright. I begin to shake all over and I can feel my face turning red.

If I could teach, I would teach children to keep thinking for themselves and to always question everything!

This world is full of people who are being led around by the invisible ring in their noses! People who buy clothes based on the label, who go to college to become something they can't even pronounce, because that's the "next big thing".

For instance, I went to apply to a college, I want to be a massage therapist because I know I'm good at it. I just need the license. You have to go to school for the license... They tried to talk me into something "more" because of my score on their exam. I want to do something I'm good at, something I enjoy that can benefit others, not something that might pay more!

The world is a crazy place filled with potential. You can be anything! There are people who would make great teachers that are not going into the profession because the money isn't as good as something else that they qualify for.

Being a teacher, and living in this world is not about the money, it's about leaving the world better than when you came in, it's about making a difference.

Make a difference. Think of what an influence someone has had on you, a teacher, a mentor, a friend. Write about the person who had an impact on your life. If you had a truly great teacher, tell the story! Ask at your local school if the teachers need help, an assistant to grade papers or help out with the kids. Inspire your kids to become teachers. Try volunteering at the school, it is a rewarding experience you will never forget. This was at least one thing I was able to do, volunteering for field trips. The kids actually reported back to me, if you can believe that!

Without good teachers there is no future. Please don't put them down, raise them up. They have a job that many of us could never do on our best day, and they do it every day, whether they feel like it or not, even on their worst day. I guess that I understand what that "bad teacher" was trying to say. She had to show up every day, maybe she was just asking me to do the same.

I didn't know then that Woody Allen had said "90% of life is showing up." I find now that there is an actual column, about teaching, with that title, and I'll quote it here, as it is relevant to this hub.

90% of life is showing up (copied from www.joannejacobs.com)

MAY 9, 2010 BY JOANNE

Nikka Landau teaches in Taiwan, where teacher absenteeism is not an issue. A teacher always shows up to work unless seriously ill. So do students.

Claire Landau teaches third grade in Philadelphia, where truancy is common for both teachers and students. She writes to her sister:

Your teachers and students go to school with a purpose. For a purpose. Here in Philly, school is a place you show up at (or don’t show up at) each day. This is true for students and it is clearly true for teachers as well.

Maybe I was born forty years too late, and should be growing up in Philly... 

But seriously, even now, in this current economy, with cut backs and pay cuts, teachers give so much more than we deserve. Give them respect, and if anyone says they want to be a teacher, encourage them rather than discourage them. We would be nowhere without our teachers. The future is, almost literally, in their hands.

Taylor Mali, inspiring 1000 new Teachers: check in at http://taylormali.com/teachers/What_About_You.php

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To read about how I found Taylor Mali: Learning Something Every Day, It's What Kids Do.

To read about Taylor Mali, and his influence on me: Taylor Mali:: Inspiring Poet:: Inspiring 1000 New Teachers

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Cagsil Level 7 Commenter 20 months ago

Hey Faye, I would offer you something from my past, but the teachers I remember were not very good to begin with. It would be nice if more people understood the actual role of a teacher, but many parents nowadays seem to think that teachers are supposedly to do more than in the past. I think it was gotten why too political also. The entire educational system is fraught with political and social issues that the system is starting to break down. You did a great job on this hub. I voted it up and marked it as useful. It's always a pleasure to read your writing. Thank you for sharing a wonderful story about you and your relationship with that one teacher. It's a nice memory to hold on to. :)

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Faybe Bay Hub Author 20 months ago

Thanks Ray, I know I may seem redundant with now four hubs about teaching, and learning, but where would we be? My grandfather was a teacher, with such an easy laugh, I wish he had taught my children as he taught me before I started to school. This legacy is passed to my children and grandchildren, as my kids teach theirs, just as I taught them, and he taught me. I was lucky. Parents do not realize what they are expecting of the teachers, that it's more than ever before!

Not all of us have had at least one great teacher. I was among the lucky ones, I had more than one great teacher. This one, however, made the most profound difference, changing me for life.

mioluna 20 months ago

Faybe Bay, you wrote an awesome hub! Sometimes teachers can change your personality and even your future life. I was a very shy girl and never could speak my opinion and I had a lot of doubts all of the time. My Great Teacher made me a confident person and took away my fear of speaking.

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Faybe Bay Hub Author 20 months ago

Hi Mioluna, that's exactly what I'm talking about! Everyone should have at least one "Great Teacher" story, and until the day when that is a reality, we need more teacher to be inspired to greatness, and more people to be inspired to become great teachers.

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lorlie6 Level 3 Commenter 20 months ago

I was also blessed in having a number of great teachers, Faye, ones I will never forget. Most of them I found in college, but one in particular was in grad school. I've kept in touch with him over the years and now he's a personal friend.

Wonderful hub!

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Faybe Bay Hub Author 20 months ago

That's great Lorlie! I think many of us who become writers are able to do so because we had at least one great teacher. I didn't get to go to college or grad school, but now I am in school to become an Electrician and I have had truly great teachers there.

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lorlie6 Level 3 Commenter 20 months ago

My son would LOVE to talk electricity with you-he's a smog technician but loved the electric systems when in mechanic school.

All the best in your pursuits!

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Faybe Bay Hub Author 20 months ago

Thanks Lorlie! I'm actually going in today to be a teacher's assistant, since I'm not working anyway. That I can do...

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LeanMan Level 4 Commenter 20 months ago

I am happy to say that the teachers that I remember are the good ones, the bad ones have faded from my memory long ago.

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Faybe Bay Hub Author 20 months ago

Hi LeanMan, I'm so glad that you had good teachers. It obviously makes us interact better with others, when we have good teachers, as opposed to "bad" teachers.

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Evylyn Rose Level 4 Commenter 6 months ago

Wonderful hub! Looking around on information on teacher influences, I noticed how caught up we are on statistical data and the findings of case study research. Sometimes it is the personal stories that help highlight the main the points. Thanks for sharing!

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Faybe Bay Hub Author 2 months ago

Thank you Evylyn Rose. I love Taylor Mali, he is such an inspiration. I had never once considered being a teacher before seeing him perform. Remember there are many types of teachers, I never realized how much I was teaching others in my daily life! I figure if every teacher could make a difference in just one students life... Well you don't have to be a math teacher to figure out how much of a ripple effect that would cause; then try it with one student per teacher each year of his/her career and you would quite possibly change the world.

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